<2> When Shame Becomes the Seed of Violence
<3> The Silent Struggle of a Child’s Aggression
Children who exhibit aggressive behavior often face a multitude of challenges, including frustration, anger, and a lack of impulse control. However, research suggests that beneath these outward signs lies a more complex issue: shame. When children feel humiliated, rejected, or unloved, they may internalize these feelings, leading to a deep-seated sense of shame that can manifest as aggression.
<3> The Story of a Boy Named Alex
Alex was a 7-year-old boy who had been exhibiting increasingly aggressive behavior at home and in school. He would lash out at his siblings, punch holes in the wall, and even bite his teachers. His parents were at a loss for what to do, and his teachers were struggling to manage his behavior in the classroom.
One day, Alex’s teacher, Mrs. Johnson, sat down with him and asked him to tell her what was going on. Alex opened up about the constant teasing he endured from his classmates, the way his parents seemed to favor his older sister, and the feeling of being invisible at home. Mrs. Johnson listened attentively, and for the first time, Alex felt truly heard.
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